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BDSM Journey 1: How Do I Become A Mistress?

I was born and raised in a country that is traditionally oriental, very conservative and patriarchal. Do you know what Vietnam was like 30 years ago?

BDSM Journey 1: How Do I Become A Mistress?

It was a country of patriarchal bureaucracy. Men always decided everything in the family, including things relating to their women. I was just a child at that time, but I was very observant.

Women in my grandparents and my parents’ days were not very educated. My grandmother said: Women at that time seemed to have only one right which was taking care of their families! Because the society emphasizes male rights,so in ordinary families, only men could go to school. Maybe it was different for rich people. But I was not lucky to be born rich. My grandmother worked hard to support my grandfather in school.

Women in my childhood memories were terribly modest. There was no such things like tank tops! Sometimes when it was too hot, she rolled up her sleeves a bit but her husbands punish her when he saw that . Yes, it was normal for a woman to be abused by her husband at that time. And the service of her husband and her children was considered her duty.

My grandmom said that she used to have very beautiful long black hair. When they ran out of food in their house, she cut her hair and sold it in exchange for food. Her husband found it out and he beat her up.. My mother witnessed all these miserable things. She did not want to accept the fate like my her mom. Hence, she would rather stay single than to be married. At the time, girls got married very early, when they were 15 or 16. But my mom was 18.

Several years later, my mom met my dad, they fell in love and got married. Although my father was less patriarchal than the men at the time, he still carried the old-fashioned ideas of ‘men are masters’. My mother was more of a feminist, so many times my parents had a conflict. And the gap between them was bigger and bigger.

However, in the society, people were quite afraid of divorce because of their children so even though their marriage was not happy, they would just bare each other and live an unhappy life with the excuse ‘For the children”? Did they ever realize that the tragedy they created from that endurance disturbed your children?

I grew up like that. Therefore, I always told myself I would never go into the footsteps of my parents. My life, my destiny, are determined by Me and only Me!

(to be continued)

VN Goddess

Common Questions to Me – Viet Nam Princess

Viet Nam Princess

viet nam princess

Hi subs, thanks for serving and supporting Me on what I have been doing. I really appreciate it all. For those who have not met me yet or like to learn more about Me, here is a list of common questions I usually get for sessions and more. Pls simply contact me if you do not see what is on your mind in this post.  

1) What is Ur vanilla job?

A performer.


2) How should i address U?

Miss, in both public and private.


3) How do U look in real?

My body is like in my photos. For my face, most of people said I look young and cute, some said pretty and attractive. Guess u need to check out urself . 


4) What are Ur favorite colors?

Black, red, white and blue.


5) What are Ur hobbies?

Singing, listening and playing music, dancing, travel, movies, swimming, sports, playing pool,
domination, reading and more. 


6) What is Ur marital status?



7) What is Ur sexuality?

A bi Domme.


8) What is Ur domination style?

Depends on how I feel at that time. I like teasing, romantic and sensual domination but also enjoy torturing and using someone.


9) How do U see Urself as personalities?

Confident, open minded, sweet, kind, easy going and playful but I am extremely impatient and easily get bored. I am fun to be with. I am normally humble but could be quite arrogant to strangers especially boys.


10) What was the people’s impression when they first saw U?

Shocked lol I am joking. Actually some people said I didn’t look like a Dom and the reason of why they said so is bs I have a very sweet look. Most of Dommes seem to have a lot of make-ups on Their eyes which made Them look strong and fierce. I normally do not have it. I am a Leo, a natural born leader. It is all in heart isn’t it. I like to be sweet and nice with some manipulation. Devil is inside .


11) What are Ur fav fantasies?

I am a sadist and a rapist. I like strapon, humiliation, group domination, dog training, massage, sissyfication, fin-dom, edging, foot/shoes worship, leather, chastity etc.


12) What are Ur limits?

Blood, scat and needles.


13) How do U like to be treated?

As a Goddess with high respect and devotion.


14) What do the subs like from U?

Maybe my relaxing and enjoyable laughs during my sessions…not very sure. You need to find it out then.


15) What is Ur ideal sub?

Someone with a pure sub heart and honesty. It doesn’t matter much physically unless he is over sized . Someone who treats me like a Queen with no ego and jealousy. If u expect Me to do whatever u want, pls do not contact Me, no matter how much money u have. I will like it if u support Me on what I do and I will do the same to u in return. Supporting Me is supporting urself . Especially I quite like good surprises, either small or big. I like to be spoiled. Someone who likes to make me a very happy woman and try his best to serve Me.  


16) Can U love a sub and take care of him?

I can, I have a lot of love to share. As a Dom, I like to take care of my sub, see him happy and comfortable around Me. I like to give and receive unconditional love with no calculation and comparison. Every Dom is different and I would not say I am the best. There is always a better one. The thing is I know what I want for My life.


17) Would U see Urself settling down with someone?

I would for the right person who must be a sub bs I am no more interested in vanilla men.


18) What is an ideal relationship to U?

Trusted, loving, caring, understanding, mutual respect especially no secrets from each other. I would not expect a monogamy from u. Understand that one person can worship many Goddesses (I mean having sessions with other Doms) but should have the main Goddess that u devote to. If u become close with the others or treat them better than Me (giving them gifts, money other than sessions) then it is another thing. U MUST have my permission to see other Doms. I’d rather be in an open relationship than to do things behind each other’s back. U can always be open to Me. If 2 parties have secrets from each other, there is something wrong.


19) What is Ur weakness?

I have a lot . I am very impatient especially to beginners. I could be very aggressive, cold n cruel (as a part of my Leo sign) when someone saddens or annoys me. Afraid of dark, height and thunder. I tend to easily give up when it comes to emotional challenges. I could be very demanding and I like expensive things since I see Myself as a Goddess :). 


20) What do U dislike from subs?

Ego. Some of u could be quite egoistical and usually take granted of Me while Me being nice and close to u. In that case u would not have another chance with Me. I do not like playboys, fuckboys with or without serious situations. I have seen some people throwing money away to use women as they want. I respect and love women too much to see that. It hurts. I would not mind u throwing money into my pocket lol.


21) What is difference between a sub and a slave?

It is about devotion. A sub means u have a choice of who to serve but a slave does not. A sub can have many Doms but a slave can not or u need permission from your Doms. Moreover, being a slave means your owned by Her.


22) How do U feel while having sessions with married men or men who are in loving relationship?

Many of those who have come to me are married or in relationships. Most of them have pretty good loving relationship but in a corner of their world they still miss their fantasies being fulfilled and it might not be easy to tell their partners or it is unacceptable. Also, there are many of them who have lost their interests in vanilla sexual life. If having sessions with Me makes them feel better about themselves and their vanilla relationships, I will be more than happy to help. It is mutual support.


23) Have U had many contacts who are fakers?

Yes, sometimes. Some people contacted Me just for a chit chat which excited them and they would wank over it. Some came and said stupid things like I was a money digger, an escort blah blah or tried to put me down. I do not feel bad but feel sorry for those losers who are useless in their life. Those who have met me or had sessions with Me already knew that I do not offer escort services (blow job, hand job, sex, clothes off in sessions etc). Whatever u think of me as a pro Domme, it does not matter. I know who I am which is enough. You either like me or hate me and u can only fool me once.


24) What is difference between a vanilla and a D/s relationship?

In my opinions, they are not much different. In both of them, people love and take care of each other. It is power exchange. The more the subs surrender, the powerful the Doms become. The subs love, care and make their Doms happy, the Doms love, care and make sure their subs enjoy being and serving them. In fact if 2 persons are in the same fantasy life, it will be easier to understand and open to each other, from there the love grows stronger and deeper. It could be very beautiful and enjoyable if 2 parties maintain it reasonably.


25) How would You like Ur D/s relationship to be?

Well, being a Dom doesn’t mean I control the person completely. There is nothing 100%. It is quite different between a lifestyle and a single session. In the sessions, I can be tough, be extreme bs it does only last a few hours, then people have a rest from each other. In the lifestyle, won’t be like that in daily activities or else it would tire people out. I do like to care for my partner with some little cooking, kisses or hugs sometimes, love to listen to him and support him whenever he needs Me. When we go out together, I love to choose clothes which he will be wearing (no worries, I have a good fashion taste), decide on places that we will have dinner or where to go. If I run out of ideas, he can suggest and I consider. I like to show my affection and emotion. We might argue sometimes so he should be the one who calms me down and saves the conversation with a little hug for example bs I am quite hot tempered. It would just be an explosion if the person keeps fighting with me. Most of my time I travel alone, I do everything on my own, it is very nice to have someone who organizes things for Me and surprises Me. It makes me feel like a Queen. I might not have nothing to reward him but my love.


26) Have U dominated female subs?

Yes I have. I am bisexual.


27) Have U done group domination?

Yes I have many times. I enjoy them.


28) What was the craziest thing that U have done?

Leasing a sub out for escort service to earn money for Me. I guess I am a weird creature lol.


29) What turns U on the most?

Obedience…when the person says yes to what I ask for or let Me do it My way. I love to push one’s limits especially I like to take virginity lol.


30) Would U see Urself falling for someone like Me?

Haha…how freaky are u?


31) If U met a super nice man who would support U mentally and financially, would U stop being a pro Domme?

I would consider…


32) Would U re-locate for the right person?



33) Are U a jealous type of person?

Maybe a little if I really like the person. But I always encourage him to be what he is and hope he will do that to Me in return.


34) What would U do if U found that the person cheated on U or did things behind Ur back?

Leave him alone. There is no point to be jealous or to argue if he likes someone better than Me.


Right, should be enough now. If u think I am ur type of Dom, do not hesitate to contact Me and if u like me, like me for what I am. If u do something for Me, make sure it is bs u feel like doing them. Please do not do anything and then complain that I am too demanding. I would never force anyone to do anything. Cheers!

From VNG





How to impress Me – Guide to A Slave’s Behaviors

Guide to A Slave’s Behaviors


I sometimes have got questions like How someone would make Me happy or How they can please Me. To let you know guys I do appreciate it a lot that you care about Me and How I feel. If you ever read my previous posts, you will notice that I am a dominant by blood or at least I know that I am (smile). So it makes Me happy just to meet a like-minded person, I meant a sub by nature. It is the most attracted thing to see someone who is devoted naturally and unconditionally.

You might think now that if there are such people. Tell you what, being a pro Dom, I have been very lucky to meet those who I find so so so beautiful. I am not talking about their looks but their hearts. I don’t find anything more attracted than a pure submissive heart. And now the question is what makes Me happy. Every Dom has different demands and expectation. To be honest, I am not that good technically to compare with other Dommes. They are surely much much better than Me. All I can give you is my heart, my feeling and my connection to you. Once again, I love to be treated as a Princess.

I love to be kissed on my hands and my feet. If you look into my eyes and kiss my hand, I’m sure that you will touch my heart and one step closer to Me. About my demands, do I have any? Yes, for my Queeny side I enjoy very much being given things. I don’t mean expensive or luxurious stuffs, even for little things like a small cake for example, I still feel happy enough. Of course I can buy myself those things so why? The answer is because I am Queeny (laugh). 

There are many advice that I should make myself more popular by posting more of adverts and more photos on my site. The thing is Do I need to be popular? I don’t, even though I know that it might bring more money to Me but I never feel like being too commercial. It is what I feel for myself. I am not judging anyone here. What you might not know is I have made this site on my own and what I have posted on here is what I feel like sharing to ‘this world’. I know that it is very simple site and not fascinating at all but it is all I can do (smile).

It is obvious that adverts are necessary in this modern world. I do post adverts of course to reach out people. If someone are meant to see Me then they will. Money is needed for life which I never deny. I used to tell someone that I am glad just to earn enough during my trips and I am hugely thankful to those who have supported Me. I will never forget that. 

Some people may find Me arrogant because I reject taking sessions sometimes. If I accidentally offend you, I really apologize. The thing is I would not do what I don’t like or I can’t enjoy (for example scat session) no matter how much money you give Me. Besides, if I don’t feel respectful or you are too much egoistic as a sub, I have to say sorry that I won’t see you because I know for sure that it won’t be enjoyable for both of us.

Some people think that they can get whatever they want since they pay for the sessions. They are not submissive by heart obviously. Those mannered people would not be able to get along with Me. I am not saying they are no good, just that our thinking are so different so why see each other?

Money is important but there is something that is more important to Me. If I don’t follow my heart, believe Me I will be a loser. Life is miracle this way. So yeah if you are looking for a very professional skillful Dom, it’s probably not Me. All I have is a lot of love to share and I ensure you that I always enjoy whatever I do to you.

Another thing is someone said that I didn’t look like a Dom. I found it quite funny and entertained to hear. Wondering How a Dom should look. Do I have to look like a Dom to be a Dom? So then I contacted that person and asked for the answer. From his thinking and from what he has seen, Dommes have quite heavy make-up especially on their eyes which make them look more masculine and powerful. Is this right? If you guys can answer this better, please message Me. I guess it depends on what people are looking for.

I never feel that I need a heavy make-up which I consider bad way to my skin. I might have an angel look with an evil heart? There is no doubt that I can add more make-over to myself but then How am I gonna add make-up to my heart? Perhaps I have to go to a spa for that (laugh). 

From VN Goddess

Am I a Pro Dom? – BDSM Session Viet Nam

BDSM Session Viet Nam

BDSM session vn

Yes and no.

Yes because I do charge for my sessions. I know there are quite a lot of doubts and questions around it, something like if I am a Domme for money and that it is my job. Tell you what, I have heard a lot. This post is to clear it out if any of you have ever wondered about Me.

Firstly, I have devoted Myself to the lifestyle. There is undoubting truth that I was born to be a Dominant. Whatever you call Me or think of Me, I am still what I am. I have lived this part of mine to the fullest and I never pretend to be something. Apart of being a Mistress, I am a person just like yourself. I still have to live as well. Doing sessions is one of my livings. I am taking care of myself. So do not judge Me if you don’t even know about Me.

Secondly, those who come to Me usually have their own lives. SM is a piece of their whole life that I name “another world”. Apart from their vanilla lives, they still have a desire of fulfilling their fantasies without hurting their vanilla. I am here for that. There are no strings, no attachment and I do always make sure both you and Me have fun. 

Thirdly, even tho I charge for it, I prefer calling ‘tribute’ than pay. It could be money, gifts, toys, things that I need and so on. Please don’t think that you pay to have fun with Me but to support Me and my dungeon since it is one of very few one in Ho Chi Minh. Pleases note that my session is not about sex and I am not  a bar girl. If you can not respect Me for what I am, please do not contact Me.

The last thing is I know that many people would rather have a D/s relation than to tribute for a short session. I understand. But a relationship is just not as what you think, it is a lot more behind the meanings. In a relationship, there are more responsibilities, you have to take a good care of Me make sure that I am always happy. Yes for that, do you think you are ready? So think twice before you wish for something.

Am I a pro Dom? Does it really matter now as long as I do sessions with all my heart? I don’t take your money for nothing, I do care about my partners during the sessions, to ensure that you enjoy it with Me. I spend my precious time with you so I expect to get something that would support Me and my life, otherwise who is gonna take care of Me? I never push anyone to pay if you are not willing to. So please remember that life has chosen me this way, what I am doing is to support both sides, not just for money. 


From VN Goddess

Women Supremacy – Viet Nam Goddess

Viet Nam Goddess

VN Goddess

I have believed in Women Supremacy for years. Since I started being a Dominatrix, I have found women power very mysterious and endless. There are two different kinds of power, one from controlling the people and one from within, self confidence. And it is a great balance to combine two of them efficiently.

You may think that I stand by Women Supremacy because I am a woman. This is one of the reasons. In fact, women have many advantages. The first thing is about their physical look. Since I am also attracted to women, I always find their look more interesting than men in a way. Obviously, it is a plus to dominant women who have both power and physical attraction. However, how to balance them is a mystery.

Every Domme has their own way of domination. There was a time I focused on my physical attraction a lot, used my charms to dominate people. It was fun for a while. I then realized I was becoming too extreme and dependent on it. I was afraid that my beauty would be gone when I grew older and older. But that is something I could never avoid or control as what I did to slaves. So instead of accepting the truth, I was chasing myself as a shadow. It was my big ego.

I soon woke up from that nightmare and pulled myself back. I discovered and learnt a way to balance it. Slaves helped me grow at that time which I really appreciated. Actually, it was not that hard to be in balance as long as I could accept and just let it be the way it was meant to be. My look helps me more confident; my inner confidence brings me love and better feelings of myself.

It is interesting to control someone in all body, mind and soul. Even though I am more into soul level but I do use my charms to dominate  in a comfortable way. It is more important to ‘tame’ one’s heart than their body. Pain will be gone in a while but submission in their heart will last. Once they devote with all their heart, their body will follow and be ready for using.

I can be strict and cruel but I can be sweet and caring as well. All depends on my mood and how the slave behaves. Slaves have their different limits. The thing is to be sensitive to them, feel them and find out flexibility for new challenges. It is like a door to their soul and once I get the key, I can open it anytime.

From VN Goddess