Thế Nào Là 1 Mistress Đúng Nghĩa – Bà Chủ BDSM VN

Bà Chủ BDSM Việt Nam

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Nhiều nô lệ BDSM hỏi tôi “Bạn có phải Mistress không?” Tôi tự hỏi sao tôi lại nhận được nhiều câu hỏi như vậy khi tên trên FB tôi là Princess. Rồi 1 ngày tôi chợt nhận ra, ngày nay ở HCM có khá nhiều dịch vụ Femdom hoặc ‘giả’ Femdom, khiến nhiều người có cái nhìn sai lệch về BDSM. Một người chỉ cần cầm roi đánh vài ba cái, tát vào mặt mấy cái là đã trở thành Bà Chủ BDSM rồi ư? Cuộc sống sao dễ dàng thế! Nói vậy những Mistress như tôi và các bạn khác đâu cần phải bỏ nhiều thời gian ra luyện tập, học hỏi và phấn đấu mỗi ngày để không ‘dặm chân tại chỗ’?

Ngày nay các dịch vụ massage, dịch vụ cho đàn ông mọc lên như nấm, nhiều vô số kể. So với mười mấy năm trước khi tôi bắt đầu trờ thành một Bà Chủ, cộng đồng BDSM Việt Nam phát triển hơn nhiều, về cả số lượng lẫn chất lượng. Thế nên bạn đã bao giờ tự hỏi “Một Bà Chủ chân chính là như thế nào?”. Dù có đánh và tra tấn người khác thì phải đánh như thế nào cho đúng? Đâu phải cầm gậy, cầm roi đánh đại vài cái là được, chẳng thèm quan tâm đến sức khỏe và an toàn của người nhận? Đấy không phải là Bà Chủ, mà chỉ là người chơi BDSM. Xin đừng nhầm lẫn! Một Dominatrix đúng nghĩa cần có những đặc điểm sau đây:

  • Tự tin và có kiến thức tốt về những việc mình làm
  • Cư xử đúng mực và tin vào giá trị của mình
  • Luôn đật an toàn và sức khỏe nô lệ mình lên trên hết: nếu ai đó bảo họ là Bà Chủ có quyền làm gì làm, không cần quan tâm bạn, điều đấy không hợp lý. Bà Chủ phải yêu thương và quan tâm đến nô lệ thì nô lệ mới toàn tâm toàn ý phục vụ Bà Chủ
  • Tạo cảm giác an toàn và tin cậy cho nô lệ
  • Huấn luyện, chịu trách nhiệm về cách cư xử và hành vi của nô lệ: như người Việt hay nói “con hư tại mẹ”
  • Bất kỳ cuộc chơi nào đều là cá nhân giữa hai người, đảm bảo cả hai bên đều thoải mái, vui vẻ, nhưng điều quan trọng nhất nên nhớ ‘Bạn vẫn là Người Lãnh Đạo’
  • Dù bạn là Người Lãnh Đạo nhưng vẫn phải tôn trọng quyền riêng tư của nô lệ mình
  • Nếu bạn thật sự thích BDSM thì hãy dành thời gian tìm hiểu để có kiến thức rộng hơn, tránh những sai lầm đáng tiếc

Sau khi đọc bài viết này tôi hi vọng bạn có thể nhận ra mình thật sự là Mistress hay không!

Nữ Thần VN

How to impress Me – Guide to A Slave’s Behaviors

Guide to A Slave’s Behaviors

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I sometimes have got questions like How someone would make Me happy or How they can please Me. To let you know guys I do appreciate it a lot that you care about Me and How I feel. If you ever read my previous posts, you will notice that I am a dominant by blood or at least I know that I am (smile). So it makes Me happy just to meet a like-minded person, I meant a sub by nature. It is the most attracted thing to see someone who is devoted naturally and unconditionally.

You might think now that if there are such people. Tell you what, being a pro Dom, I have been very lucky to meet those who I find so so so beautiful. I am not talking about their looks but their hearts. I don’t find anything more attracted than a pure submissive heart. And now the question is what makes Me happy. Every Dom has different demands and expectation. To be honest, I am not that good technically to compare with other Dommes. They are surely much much better than Me. All I can give you is my heart, my feeling and my connection to you. Once again, I love to be treated as a Princess.

I love to be kissed on my hands and my feet. If you look into my eyes and kiss my hand, I’m sure that you will touch my heart and one step closer to Me. About my demands, do I have any? Yes, for my Queeny side I enjoy very much being given things. I don’t mean expensive or luxurious stuffs, even for little things like a small cake for example, I still feel happy enough. Of course I can buy myself those things so why? The answer is because I am Queeny (laugh). 

There are many advice that I should make myself more popular by posting more of adverts and more photos on my site. The thing is Do I need to be popular? I don’t, even though I know that it might bring more money to Me but I never feel like being too commercial. It is what I feel for myself. I am not judging anyone here. What you might not know is I have made this site on my own and what I have posted on here is what I feel like sharing to ‘this world’. I know that it is very simple site and not fascinating at all but it is all I can do (smile).

It is obvious that adverts are necessary in this modern world. I do post adverts of course to reach out people. If someone are meant to see Me then they will. Money is needed for life which I never deny. I used to tell someone that I am glad just to earn enough during my trips and I am hugely thankful to those who have supported Me. I will never forget that. 

Some people may find Me arrogant because I reject taking sessions sometimes. If I accidentally offend you, I really apologize. The thing is I would not do what I don’t like or I can’t enjoy (for example scat session) no matter how much money you give Me. Besides, if I don’t feel respectful or you are too much egoistic as a sub, I have to say sorry that I won’t see you because I know for sure that it won’t be enjoyable for both of us.

Some people think that they can get whatever they want since they pay for the sessions. They are not submissive by heart obviously. Those mannered people would not be able to get along with Me. I am not saying they are no good, just that our thinking are so different so why see each other?

Money is important but there is something that is more important to Me. If I don’t follow my heart, believe Me I will be a loser. Life is miracle this way. So yeah if you are looking for a very professional skillful Dom, it’s probably not Me. All I have is a lot of love to share and I ensure you that I always enjoy whatever I do to you.

Another thing is someone said that I didn’t look like a Dom. I found it quite funny and entertained to hear. Wondering How a Dom should look. Do I have to look like a Dom to be a Dom? So then I contacted that person and asked for the answer. From his thinking and from what he has seen, Dommes have quite heavy make-up especially on their eyes which make them look more masculine and powerful. Is this right? If you guys can answer this better, please message Me. I guess it depends on what people are looking for.

I never feel that I need a heavy make-up which I consider bad way to my skin. I might have an angel look with an evil heart? There is no doubt that I can add more make-over to myself but then How am I gonna add make-up to my heart? Perhaps I have to go to a spa for that (laugh). 

From VN Goddess

A slave’s diary (Part 1) – Dominatrix Saigon

Dominatrix Saigon

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This slave dog turned up at Miss T’s door, the door was opened and this slave came into the room and was ordered to strip naked. This slave did as it was told and kneel naked at the feet of Miss.

Miss then invited this slave to dress Her in a leather skirt, top and boots which was a great honor and service for it to perform after her skirt and top were on and a few fast slaps to correct its mistakes this slave was then told to put on Her boots. Her nice legs and beautiful feet slipped into Her knee high boots.

This slave was placed into hand cuffs and a collar with a leash and order to crawl into the middle of the room, this slave took the submissive pose with its head to the floor ass in the air and hands out with palms up, a ball gag was put into slaves mouth and strapped on .

Miss then caned this slave across its ass followed by another and another, Miss how to take control of Her slave dog property by inflicting the pain of the cane to its ass, Miss then told this slave why it was being punished for not doing an assignment good enough and failing Her, after 20 strokes of the cane Miss started to use the leather flogger on its back hard, She continue to bring the flogger down on this slaves back time after time, all over.

Vn Goddess then stood on slaves hands and said “you will not fail Me again will You slave dog”, this slave had learnt its lesson but Miss continue to flog its back to make sure, this slave agreement with yes Miss through the ball gag in its mouth.

This slave was then told to get on its back with its arms spread out the cuff on its arms were soon tied down and the ball gag was taken out and replaced with a hood and a blind fold, “now it is time to have fun” Miss said, then the first drops of hot wax started falling on this slave naked body, as it wiggled in pain on the floor Miss laugh at the site.

The Goddess final put Her boot onto this slave body and ordered it not to move this slave stayed still with Miss T’s boot on it throw as She delightfully kept pouring hot wax over its body, when She had finished with the hot wax torture the ice was to come next lay cold ice cubes out in patterns for Her amusements on this slave body, “stay still slave” She ordered, this slave did its best to not move but the ice cube kept sliding off its body onto the floor Miss did not like this and She would slap and kick this slave dog for not doing as it was told.

After the ice cubes had melted away and then took the blind fold off this slaves eyes so it could see what was coming next, it was a hot chilli dropped into its mouth,” now eat it”, this slave did as it was told and then another chilli and another until this slave had 3 hot chilli in its mouth and could feel the intense chilli heat in its mouth, Miss then stood over this slave like the true Asian Goddess She is and peed into this slave mouth this slave was so happy to drink Miss Trans pee and then She continued to pee all over this slave dogs body, after She had finished She uncuffed this slave and ordered it to lick up the mess on the floor. This slave dog licked up all the mess which was a mixture of Miss T’s pee, water from the ice cubes and the little dirty that was on the floor.

It licked and sucked up the mess as it was an honor to serve Miss T and be anything She wanted, after clean up the mess Miss pull on the dog collar and and put a doggy bowl full of corn flakes in front of it and ordered it to eat, this slave dog did as it was told eating on the floor like the dog it is, Miss then pulled on this slave chain this dog lifted its head as Miss moved the doggy bowl away and throw it a doggy bone, this picked it up in its mouth and stood on all fours like a grateful dog should, then a toy ball was thrown at doggies paws, this doggy start to play with the ball around and around in circus for Miss T’s amusement.

Miss then ordered this slave dog to Her feet, She took the doggy bone from its mouth and throw it across the room and ordered this dog to fetch, this slave dog crawl on all fours to fetch the bone for Miss, She ordered it to go fast, this dog went fast for Miss as She throw the bone again across the room, slave dog did not need an order the second time, it crawled quickly over to fetch the bone for Miss, She then continued to throw the bone 4 more times for doggy to fetch.

After She stood up and ordered doggy to turn around, She then sat on this slave dog’s back, it was a great pleasure to be used as a seat by such a great Asian Goddess, She then moved Her leg over and saddled this slave like a pony, “crawl” She ordered and this slave crawled and carried Her on its back after 3 times around the room this slaves knees were buckling and body shacking in pain, Miss T saw this but wanted to push this slave further She commanded it to crawl around the room one more time, this slave was in pain but did as Miss wanted and was more afraid about falling down and the Goddess falling off then what it was about itself, this slave crawled around the room again in complete pain , knees shacking and slave moaning, only for hear Miss T’s laughter, when this slave had finish the complete crawl around the room Miss stood up and this slave crumbled to the floor, to hear Miss laugh out loud.

She looked down at this slave on the floor and then ordered it back onto its knees, tied its cock and balls with rope around a post and then to wall making sure they were easy to get to and then its hand together tied off around the back of its head, after which this slave was blindfolded, Miss then proceeded to grab at, pull and poke at Your slave ball property before applying pegs to the ball sack, penis, nipples and skin.

After this slave skin had been nicely decorated with colorful pegs, She brought out a cane and started hitting the pegs, telling this slave if any fall off it will get a lot worse, this knelt still as Miss had Her fun, hoping that none of the pegs would fall off, after Miss had Her fun She removed the pegs from this slave first the skin, then the ball sack and cock and finally the nipples.

Miss T then took the blindfold off this slave and placed Her boot in front of it, this slave dog was allowed to kiss and worship Miss T’s boot another great honor, after which Miss was pleased with the punishment and training so far and this slave was put to domestic duties, naked of course.

Dog Boo