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Am I a Pro Dom? – BDSM Session Viet Nam

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Yes and no.

Yes because I do charge for my sessions. I know there are quite a lot of doubts and questions around it, something like if I am a Domme for money and that it is my job. Tell you what, I have heard a lot. This post is to clear it out if any of you have ever wondered about Me.

Firstly, I have devoted Myself to the lifestyle. There is undoubting truth that I was born to be a Dominant. Whatever you call Me or think of Me, I am still what I am. I have lived this part of mine to the fullest and I never pretend to be something. Apart of being a Mistress, I am a person just like yourself. I still have to live as well. Doing sessions is one of my livings. I am taking care of myself. So do not judge Me if you don’t even know about Me.

Secondly, those who come to Me usually have their own lives. SM is a piece of their whole life that I name “another world”. Apart from their vanilla lives, they still have a desire of fulfilling their fantasies without hurting their vanilla. I am here for that. There are no strings, no attachment and I do always make sure both you and Me have fun. 

Thirdly, even tho I charge for it, I prefer calling ‘tribute’ than pay. It could be money, gifts, toys, things that I need and so on. Please don’t think that you pay to have fun with Me but to support Me and my dungeon since it is one of very few one in Ho Chi Minh. Pleases note that my session is not about sex and I am not  a bar girl. If you can not respect Me for what I am, please do not contact Me.

The last thing is I know that many people would rather have a D/s relation than to tribute for a short session. I understand. But a relationship is just not as what you think, it is a lot more behind the meanings. In a relationship, there are more responsibilities, you have to take a good care of Me make sure that I am always happy. Yes for that, do you think you are ready? So think twice before you wish for something.

Am I a pro Dom? Does it really matter now as long as I do sessions with all my heart? I don’t take your money for nothing, I do care about my partners during the sessions, to ensure that you enjoy it with Me. I spend my precious time with you so I expect to get something that would support Me and my life, otherwise who is gonna take care of Me? I never push anyone to pay if you are not willing to. So please remember that life has chosen me this way, what I am doing is to support both sides, not just for money. 

Cheers.

From VN Goddess

Cross dressing – BDSM Mistress VN

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One of my favorite BDSM scenes is cross-dressing. I have started doing it since the very early time of my teen-age. At the time I realized I loved doing dress-up and make-up that was pretty usual for girls.

I had no sisters but a little brother with me who was not into such things at all. Sometimes I saw myself doing that on him. It was usually started with an urge followed by a candy then he easily let me do whatever I wanted. However, I could only do some simple makeup with the basic things that I got. 

When I got to a high school, one of my closed friends  had a brother who was really into this. In the beginning, I was not sure what he was. He once told me he loved dressing like a girl and enjoying all of the chores. He wanted to be a wife and served a husband who should have been a female. I found it quite bizarre. Did not know if I could call him a girl, a boy or a lady boy. There was something in between that I could not figure out.

Growing up, I started being a BDSM Mistress. I got to learn about sissification and realized that was what I had been wondering for months. I did that to all the slaves that came into my life. They were mostly straight. One of them was bisexual who finally became a friend, a sister and a faithful slave to me. I often went out with him dressing like a woman. I loved seeing him trying to pick up another guy for one night stand because one of my fantasies was to see him being taken by another guy either for fun or for money.

I do not know if I could call that relation a vanilla one or fetish one. He enjoyed doing all of the housework that he was pretty good at to serve me as a maid. When I wanted entertainment, he became a toy and when I needed to talk to someone, I always had him as my trusted friend. It was a lovely time that I would never forget. 

For that reason, I appreciate sissies and slaves who are into it for my pleasure. I never consider a slave by their experiences but their devotion to me. The slaves who have been brought into my life even for a short time or a long period become something to me. Do not think that there are only domination and submission in BDSM. There is also love between a Mistress and a slave. It is not mundane love like a couple. It comes from worship and devotion. When a slave submits to me with all his love, I can feel it and share it with him. That is a very remarkable moment in BDSM beyond the pain which I have learnt during my time of being a Dominatrix.

Life is too short and the beautiful moments that we have in our life is even shorter. No matter if you are a Domme or a slave, you have a right to enjoy your life to the fullest.

From VN Goddess