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How to impress Me – Guide to A Slave’s Behaviors

Guide to A Slave’s Behaviors

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I sometimes have got questions like How someone would make Me happy or How they can please Me. To let you know guys I do appreciate it a lot that you care about Me and How I feel. If you ever read my previous posts, you will notice that I am a dominant by blood or at least I know that I am (smile). So it makes Me happy just to meet a like-minded person, I meant a sub by nature. It is the most attracted thing to see someone who is devoted naturally and unconditionally.

You might think now that if there are such people. Tell you what, being a pro Dom, I have been very lucky to meet those who I find so so so beautiful. I am not talking about their looks but their hearts. I don’t find anything more attracted than a pure submissive heart. And now the question is what makes Me happy. Every Dom has different demands and expectation. To be honest, I am not that good technically to compare with other Dommes. They are surely much much better than Me. All I can give you is my heart, my feeling and my connection to you. Once again, I love to be treated as a Princess.

I love to be kissed on my hands and my feet. If you look into my eyes and kiss my hand, I’m sure that you will touch my heart and one step closer to Me. About my demands, do I have any? Yes, for my Queeny side I enjoy very much being given things. I don’t mean expensive or luxurious stuffs, even for little things like a small cake for example, I still feel happy enough. Of course I can buy myself those things so why? The answer is because I am Queeny (laugh). 

There are many advice that I should make myself more popular by posting more of adverts and more photos on my site. The thing is Do I need to be popular? I don’t, even though I know that it might bring more money to Me but I never feel like being too commercial. It is what I feel for myself. I am not judging anyone here. What you might not know is I have made this site on my own and what I have posted on here is what I feel like sharing to ‘this world’. I know that it is very simple site and not fascinating at all but it is all I can do (smile).

It is obvious that adverts are necessary in this modern world. I do post adverts of course to reach out people. If someone are meant to see Me then they will. Money is needed for life which I never deny. I used to tell someone that I am glad just to earn enough during my trips and I am hugely thankful to those who have supported Me. I will never forget that. 

Some people may find Me arrogant because I reject taking sessions sometimes. If I accidentally offend you, I really apologize. The thing is I would not do what I don’t like or I can’t enjoy (for example scat session) no matter how much money you give Me. Besides, if I don’t feel respectful or you are too much egoistic as a sub, I have to say sorry that I won’t see you because I know for sure that it won’t be enjoyable for both of us.

Some people think that they can get whatever they want since they pay for the sessions. They are not submissive by heart obviously. Those mannered people would not be able to get along with Me. I am not saying they are no good, just that our thinking are so different so why see each other?

Money is important but there is something that is more important to Me. If I don’t follow my heart, believe Me I will be a loser. Life is miracle this way. So yeah if you are looking for a very professional skillful Dom, it’s probably not Me. All I have is a lot of love to share and I ensure you that I always enjoy whatever I do to you.

Another thing is someone said that I didn’t look like a Dom. I found it quite funny and entertained to hear. Wondering How a Dom should look. Do I have to look like a Dom to be a Dom? So then I contacted that person and asked for the answer. From his thinking and from what he has seen, Dommes have quite heavy make-up especially on their eyes which make them look more masculine and powerful. Is this right? If you guys can answer this better, please message Me. I guess it depends on what people are looking for.

I never feel that I need a heavy make-up which I consider bad way to my skin. I might have an angel look with an evil heart? There is no doubt that I can add more make-over to myself but then How am I gonna add make-up to my heart? Perhaps I have to go to a spa for that (laugh). 

From VN Goddess

Women Supremacy – Viet Nam Goddess

Viet Nam Goddess

VN Goddess

I have believed in Women Supremacy for years. Since I started being a Dominatrix, I have found women power very mysterious and endless. There are two different kinds of power, one from controlling the people and one from within, self confidence. And it is a great balance to combine two of them efficiently.

You may think that I stand by Women Supremacy because I am a woman. This is one of the reasons. In fact, women have many advantages. The first thing is about their physical look. Since I am also attracted to women, I always find their look more interesting than men in a way. Obviously, it is a plus to dominant women who have both power and physical attraction. However, how to balance them is a mystery.

Every Domme has their own way of domination. There was a time I focused on my physical attraction a lot, used my charms to dominate people. It was fun for a while. I then realized I was becoming too extreme and dependent on it. I was afraid that my beauty would be gone when I grew older and older. But that is something I could never avoid or control as what I did to slaves. So instead of accepting the truth, I was chasing myself as a shadow. It was my big ego.

I soon woke up from that nightmare and pulled myself back. I discovered and learnt a way to balance it. Slaves helped me grow at that time which I really appreciated. Actually, it was not that hard to be in balance as long as I could accept and just let it be the way it was meant to be. My look helps me more confident; my inner confidence brings me love and better feelings of myself.

It is interesting to control someone in all body, mind and soul. Even though I am more into soul level but I do use my charms to dominate  in a comfortable way. It is more important to ‘tame’ one’s heart than their body. Pain will be gone in a while but submission in their heart will last. Once they devote with all their heart, their body will follow and be ready for using.

I can be strict and cruel but I can be sweet and caring as well. All depends on my mood and how the slave behaves. Slaves have their different limits. The thing is to be sensitive to them, feel them and find out flexibility for new challenges. It is like a door to their soul and once I get the key, I can open it anytime.

From VN Goddess