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Motivation – A Hearty Domme

A Hearty Domme

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Went to a massage place where all massage people were blinded. It was my first time. After relaxing my feet in herbal water, the first impression was a group of happy people who have never got to see the life with their eyes. I was pretty amazed they could be that positive. One of the woman took me to a small single room. I removed my clothes. It was also the first time that I was naked in front of a stranger in both literal and deep meanings. I didn’t talk during the session. The only way she could connect with me is through touching. She was quite sensitive enough to feel vulnerable parts of my body which even my blood parents never noticed. Then she worked more on them for a treatment. When she massage my head, she was imagining how I looked with her touching. Right at the moment it touched my heart. She was definitely attractive beyond her look. I really felt that she enjoyed taking care of me and making me feel better. She didn’t make me feel sorry for her but admire her. Life was suddenly so beautiful. After the massage, my body felt much lighter and more relaxing. Thanks Goddess for bringing me there. I will come back for sure to support them as I was meant to.

From the VN Mistress

Women Supremacy – Viet Nam Goddess

Viet Nam Goddess

VN Goddess

I have believed in Women Supremacy for years. Since I started being a Dominatrix, I have found women power very mysterious and endless. There are two different kinds of power, one from controlling the people and one from within, self confidence. And it is a great balance to combine two of them efficiently.

You may think that I stand by Women Supremacy because I am a woman. This is one of the reasons. In fact, women have many advantages. The first thing is about their physical look. Since I am also attracted to women, I always find their look more interesting than men in a way. Obviously, it is a plus to dominant women who have both power and physical attraction. However, how to balance them is a mystery.

Every Domme has their own way of domination. There was a time I focused on my physical attraction a lot, used my charms to dominate people. It was fun for a while. I then realized I was becoming too extreme and dependent on it. I was afraid that my beauty would be gone when I grew older and older. But that is something I could never avoid or control as what I did to slaves. So instead of accepting the truth, I was chasing myself as a shadow. It was my big ego.

I soon woke up from that nightmare and pulled myself back. I discovered and learnt a way to balance it. Slaves helped me grow at that time which I really appreciated. Actually, it was not that hard to be in balance as long as I could accept and just let it be the way it was meant to be. My look helps me more confident; my inner confidence brings me love and better feelings of myself.

It is interesting to control someone in all body, mind and soul. Even though I am more into soul level but I do use my charms to dominate  in a comfortable way. It is more important to ‘tame’ one’s heart than their body. Pain will be gone in a while but submission in their heart will last. Once they devote with all their heart, their body will follow and be ready for using.

I can be strict and cruel but I can be sweet and caring as well. All depends on my mood and how the slave behaves. Slaves have their different limits. The thing is to be sensitive to them, feel them and find out flexibility for new challenges. It is like a door to their soul and once I get the key, I can open it anytime.

From VN Goddess