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Women Supremacy – Viet Nam Goddess

Viet Nam Goddess

VN Goddess

I have believed in Women Supremacy for years. Since I started being a Dominatrix, I have found women power very mysterious and endless. There are two different kinds of power, one from controlling the people and one from within, self confidence. And it is a great balance to combine two of them efficiently.

You may think that I stand by Women Supremacy because I am a woman. This is one of the reasons. In fact, women have many advantages. The first thing is about their physical look. Since I am also attracted to women, I always find their look more interesting than men in a way. Obviously, it is a plus to dominant women who have both power and physical attraction. However, how to balance them is a mystery.

Every Domme has their own way of domination. There was a time I focused on my physical attraction a lot, used my charms to dominate people. It was fun for a while. I then realized I was becoming too extreme and dependent on it. I was afraid that my beauty would be gone when I grew older and older. But that is something I could never avoid or control as what I did to slaves. So instead of accepting the truth, I was chasing myself as a shadow. It was my big ego.

I soon woke up from that nightmare and pulled myself back. I discovered and learnt a way to balance it. Slaves helped me grow at that time which I really appreciated. Actually, it was not that hard to be in balance as long as I could accept and just let it be the way it was meant to be. My look helps me more confident; my inner confidence brings me love and better feelings of myself.

It is interesting to control someone in all body, mind and soul. Even though I am more into soul level but I do use my charms to dominate  in a comfortable way. It is more important to ‘tame’ one’s heart than their body. Pain will be gone in a while but submission in their heart will last. Once they devote with all their heart, their body will follow and be ready for using.

I can be strict and cruel but I can be sweet and caring as well. All depends on my mood and how the slave behaves. Slaves have their different limits. The thing is to be sensitive to them, feel them and find out flexibility for new challenges. It is like a door to their soul and once I get the key, I can open it anytime.

From VN Goddess

For a Beginner Submissive – Dominatrix Viet Nam

Dominatrix Viet Nam

Someone asked me that what the difference is between a submissive and a slave. There are actually a lot of different ideas around this. In my opinions, the first thing is a submissive will become a slave once he is owned by a certain Domme. Actually the words already indicate their own differences. A slave is someone who devotes himself completely and probably into a 24/7 relationship while a submissive may just be a follower.

I have dominated several newbie submissives so I am sharing some of my experiences for those who are not sure what to do and where to start as a beginner. 

To me, the first impression is a sub’s behaviors that normally shows how senior you are. As a beginner, you might not know how to behave in front of a Dominant or what you are supposed to be. The very basic thing that I train my sub is to be humble and respectful toward me. The way you talk and behave can be a plus to me if I still consider about having you as a slave. 

Since I like being treated like a Queen so I always find it very beautiful when someone bows to me on their knees, kisses my hands and feet, calls me Miss and wait for my orders. It is very fascinating because I get to see your pretty side that comes from being your true self that is much better than your physical look.

If you are a submissive naturally, drop your ego and act like what the word ‘submissive’ really means. If you still hold your ‘ I ‘, the D/s relation will never work. Please be aware that the more submissive you are, the more powerful your Owner becomes. And do not worry about experiences.  Everyone starts from the beginning. Experiences will come through your submission and devotion. Once you are happy and enjoyable in serving your Owner, you are on the right track. 

From VN Goddess