One of my favorite BDSM scenes is cross-dressing. I have started doing it since the very early time of my teen-age. At the time I realized I loved doing dress-up and make-up that was pretty usual for girls.
I had no sisters but a little brother with me who was not into such things at all. Sometimes I saw myself doing that on him. It was usually started with an urge followed by a candy then he easily let me do whatever I wanted. However, I could only do some simple makeup with the basic things that I got.
When I got to a high school, one of my closed friends had a brother who was really into this. In the beginning, I was not sure what he was. He once told me he loved dressing like a girl and enjoying all of the chores. He wanted to be a wife and served a husband who should have been a female. I found it quite bizarre. Did not know if I could call him a girl, a boy or a lady boy. There was something in between that I could not figure out.
Growing up, I started being a Mistress. I got to learn about sissies and realized that was what I had been wondering for months. I did that to all the slaves that came into my life. They were mostly straight. One of them was bisexual who finally became a friend, a sister and a faithful slave to me. I often went out with him dressing like a woman. I loved seeing him trying to pick up another guy for one night stand because one of my fantasies was to see him being taken by another guy either for fun or for money.
I do not know if I could call that relation a vanilla one or fetish one. He enjoyed doing all of the housework that he was pretty good at to serve me as a maid. When I wanted entertainment, he became a toy and when I needed to talk to someone, I always had him as my trusted friend. It was a lovely time that I would never forget.
For that reason, I appreciate sissies and slaves who are into it for my pleasure. I never consider a slave by their experiences but their devotion to me. The slaves who have been brought into my life even for a short time or a long period become something to me. Do not think that there are only domination and submission in BDSM. There is also love between Mistress and slave. It is not mundane love like a couple. It comes from worship and devotion. When a slave submits to me with all his love, I can feel it and share it with him. That is a very remarkable moment in BDSM beyond the pain which I have learnt during my time of being a Mistress.
Life is so short but the beautiful time that we have in our life is even shorter. No matter if you are a Domme or a slave, you have a right to enjoy your life to the fullest.